Having pleasurable sex can boost your mood, lower blood pressure, and improve your immune system. That’s why it’s important to know how to be sexy in bed.
You don’t have to be an expert, but there are some simple ways you can up your bedroom game. Here are 13 tips that will help you feel more seductive.
1. Dress for the occasion.
When you want to feel sexy in bed, dressing for the occasion is a must. Choose a flattering bra and panties, slip on a pair of lacey panties or even a fishnet bodysuit, and add a splash of color to your wardrobe with some red or yellow lingerie. It’s also a good idea to keep your makeup to a minimum. You don’t want mascara running down your face during a passionate kiss!
Another way to dress for the occasion is by playing with touch. Men love being touched all over the body. You can start by rubbing your hands against his thigh or leg in a teasing manner, then move to caress his back and shoulders.
And don’t be afraid to moan, groan or scream in pleasure! Men love hearing these sounds during sex and it can make them feel turned on just as much as you are. Plus, it’s a great way to communicate and share your feelings and emotions. Just be sure to use a soft, sensual voice and be gentle on him.
2. Get a good night’s sleep.
Getting enough sleep helps keep your hormones balanced and can boost your self-confidence. It also gives you the energy to be sexy in bed, which is important when trying to turn your partner on.
Men are very visual learners, so showing them what you like and want can be a great way to increase sexual arousal. Try stroking your breasts, rubbing your stomach or grazing your tongue on sensitive areas, like the nipples, to startle and titillate him.
Foreplay is also key to being sexy in bed. Make sure you’re both in the mood by lighting candles, drawing the curtains and playing a sensual song before getting ready to romp. You can even try sending him a sexy text to let him know you’re in the mood. You can also use ice to entice him by placing it on the top of his head or rubbing it on his nipples. The jolt from the cold will jolt him into eventual arousal. If he’s still not turned on, try flicking his tongue on known erogenous zones, like the underarm or under his arms, or licking his lips, cheeks and teeth for a different sensation.
3. Make time for yourself.
You’re more likely to feel sexy in bed if you feel good about yourself. So be sure to take some time for yourself. Whether that means getting some sexy new lingerie or simply pampering yourself with a hot bath and a glass of wine, it’s important to treat yourself well.
It’s easy to let your mind wander during sex, especially if you’re thinking about your to-do list or stressing out about work. However, it’s important to stay focused on the sensual experience and really focus on yourself and your partner.
Talking during sex can be a great way to communicate with your partner and get them to open up more. Try telling your partner what you like and don’t like. Be sure to ask them what turns them on as well! The more you both share, the more you’ll be able to satisfy each other and have an amazing sexual experience.
4. Break out of your comfort zone.
There are so many sexy ways to spice up your bedroom routine, whether you’re just starting out or looking for something new. You could try playing with the power of touch, or making a playlist to set the mood. You can also experiment with different sexual techniques, like flicking your tongue across known erogenous zones, or even trying licking and sucking him in places that aren’t so obvious.
Another way to be sexy in bed is to talk about what turns you on. This can be a great way to create chemistry, and it’s often a turn on for your partner as well.
It’s also a good idea to break out of your comfort zone when it comes to what you wear for sex. Don’t be afraid to wear sexy lingerie in the bedroom, or try something a little bolder with your hair and makeup. Just remember to keep it tasteful, and don’t go overboard. If you feel comfortable, you can even go as far as moans, groans, and growls of pleasure—men love this!
5. Be yourself.
In order to be sexy in bed, you need to love your body. And while you may not like every part of it all the time, remember that the goal is to make your partner happy. So try embracing your curves in lingerie that makes you feel confident in.
It’s also important to communicate with your partner in the bedroom. Ask them what they want and don’t like, and listen to them. This will help build their confidence, and it will also give you a better idea of what to do to turn them on.
Finally, don’t be afraid to experiment in the bedroom. It’s okay to try new things, and you might find that one thing he loves you for is something you never expected. For example, if you’re used to touching him on his thighs, try touching him in other places—like his rib cage, his toes, or his clavicle. Each place has its own erogenous zone, and exploring them all will increase the pleasure for both of you. And of course, don’t forget to use your mouth—licking and sucking his nipples can be just as sexual as a kiss.
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