Whether you’re dating someone new or have been with your partner for awhile, trying sexy things in bed can spice up your love life and create more spark. These 35 naughty ideas will surely turn your lover on in a safe and fun way!
Dance to a slow, sensual song. Give each other a massage (this doesn’t necessarily have to lead to sex, but it will heat things up).
1. Slow dance.
Slow dancing is a classic sexy thing to do with your partner. It’s an easy dance to learn and can be a lot of fun. It’s also a great way to break the ice and get to know your partner better.
To do a basic slow dance, start by taking steps to the left and then bringing your feet together. Then, take a step to the right and bring your feet together again. Repeat this pattern as the song goes on.
Try to hold your partner’s hand as you sway to the beat of the music. This will add to the sexy factor.
2. Play a game of striptease.
Playing sexy games is a fun way to add some spice to your night. Try a few of your favorite board or card games with a twist, like Frisky Go Fish or Bedroom Twister.
This can be a lot of fun and involves a little bit of foreplay, so make sure to keep it subtle. Avoid being graphically sexual, as that can come off as crass and aggressive.
You can use music to set the mood, and it helps if you have some sort of choreography. Remember to feel confident, as your partner will love this moment.
3. Make a meal out of aphrodisiac foods.
Aphrodisiac foods have a way of bringing out the romantic in people, so try making a meal that is infused with these foods. You could even make a sexy playlist to help set the mood.
Strawberry – This fruit is a classic aphrodisiac with its sweet scent, heart-shaped appearance, and delicious flavour. Make a berry salad or dessert to enjoy together.
Figs – This fruit is a natural aphrodisiac, thanks to its soft texture, sweet smell, and sexy colour. You could make a fig and apple pie or a fig salad to indulge in.
Steak – Lean red meat like steak can boost female arousal. Pair it with a side of chocolate for an orgasmic dinner.
4. Massage each other.
When it comes to intimate activities, couples often fall into a sexual routine that can get boring after a while. Changing things up can add spice to your relationship and help you stay in the mood.
For example, try giving each other a sensual massage. All you need is some lotion and a massage candle (which also doubles as lube) to make this sexy foreplay idea hot and steamy.
You can even turn up the heat by nibbling and biting during sex. Just be sure to ask your partner if they’re okay with it first. It’s a great way to show them how much you’re turned on.
5. Leave the lights on.
Whether you’re in a committed relationship or dating around, trying new things in bed can be fun and sexy. Try out some of these sexy activities and games with your partner to spice up your relationship (and possibly get orgasms).
Turning the lights on in the bedroom is a simple way to create sexual tension. You can also experiment with different lighting, like red or blue, to see what turns your partner on most. This can be especially sexy when you’re both naked! You can even play a game of strip tease, which is sure to make you both feel hot.
6. Get naughty.
Exploring your naughty side can be a fun and sensual way to connect with your partner. It can increase intimacy and attraction, as well as help you learn more about each other’s desires and boundaries. Just be sure to communicate clearly and prioritize consent at all times.
For example, try kissing areas of their body that don’t normally get attention during sex, like the legs or back. It’s also a great idea to talk dirty throughout the day, even if it isn’t sexual.
You can also buy naughty toys for foreplay, such as edible panties, cock rings, or butt plugs.
7. Play a game of truth or dare.
Whether you’re having friends over or want to spice up a date, playing a game of truth or dare is a great way to get to know your partner and add some excitement. This sexy version of the classic party game is sure to bring out your partner’s naughty side and leave you laughing all night.
Players prepare a set of questions for their partner before starting the game. They can decide who goes first by mutual agreement or flipping a coin. Answering truthfully may earn you a kiss or a dare. If you decline the dare, there is usually a penalty, such as taking a sip of your drink or losing play money.
8. Pick out your partner’s outfit.
For some couples, it can be fun to match outfits. This can be a subtle way to show your similar interests, and it also looks sexy! For example, if you both love the color blue, you could wear clothes in different shades of blue.
Girls can try on a guy’s favorite tee shirt or hoodie and pair it with jeans or leggings. Guys can try on tracksuits, jerseys, or joggers.
You can also play a naughty version of classic games, like Candy Chinese Checkers or Glowing Connect Four! These games can be played in bed, or they can be made more intimate with the use of body paints and glow-in-the-dark stickers.
9. Play a game of striptease.
Playing striptease games with your partner is a great way to spice things up. You can start by dressing in lingerie and costume pieces, and then slowly take off your clothing. Taking off each piece of clothing at a steady pace builds anticipation and can be especially seductive if done while teasing your partner.
Another sexy variation on this game is to hide sex toys and other props around the room and allow your partner to find them by running their hand up and down your body. You can even use a sheet and a pillow case for this to add a naughty twist.
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