Oral sex is a huge part of many guys’ sexual pleasure. And while it’s not a requirement for everyone, it certainly isn’t a bad thing.
There are several things you can do to spice up a blowjob. Here are some of our favorites: 1. Mix it up with your tongue.
1. Mix it up with your tongue
One of the best things about oral sex is that you can use your tongue to tease and pleasure. Many guys like a little deepthroat and if you have a sensitive urethral opening (the small slit at the tip of his penis where his cum comes out) try licking it as he blows. This is a simple trick that can make his head move up and down or even back and forth, making it feel extra hard.
Try stroking the glans with your tongue, this is super sensual and feels amazing for uncut guys. Also lick the frenulum, that tiny area of skin where the tip of his penis meets the shaft, this is very sensitive and may even give him orgasms.
You can also take his head and shaft in your mouth, suck it and twist your hand around the head for extra friction. Remember that the same movements can become boring and that’s why it’s important to mix it up. This technique is called the Twister and it’s a sure fire way to send him into orgasm.
2. Add some spice to your foreplay with food
Food foreplay is a great way to tease and entice your partner and can be used in many different ways. You can use whipped cream, chocolate, or even edible markers to write messages or designs on your partner’s body. This can be especially arousing for men who love to be touched and licked.
Another fun idea is to use champagne during a blowjob. It’s not only a great drink but the bubbles can be super arousing for both you and your man. You can also try using whipped cream during oral sex. It’s the perfect consistency and it can create a great sensation that will last for a while.
You can also try different fruits, like strawberries. These are very light and sweet and can be lickable. You can also try popsicles, they are a phallic shape and can be very stimulating.
3. Try a handjob
Some women think that they need an endless list of blow job techniques to please their man, but the truth is that guys like different things. They get turned on by seeing you enjoying yourself, and a handjob can be just as pleasurable for him as oral sex is.
One of the simplest ways to do a handjob is to make an ‘O’ shape with your fingers and then stroke his head and shaft up and down with them. You can also twist your fingers around his head and shaft and lick them, caress and tickle them. Another simple but effective trick is to lick the tip of his shaft and then suck on it, which will give him an incredibly intense sensation.
You can also use your hands to work his balls and testicles. This can be a real orgasm enhancer, and there are lots of different ways to do it, from fondling to massaging them. You can even try rubbing him with his perineum (it’s easy to do and very stimulating), or you could tease him by running your fingers over his taint, or push gently/firmly on it.
4. Finish on your closed lips or chin
If you want to spice up your blowjob, try finishing on your closed lips or chin. This adds an element of surprise and will give him extra pleasure while you’re doing it. It’s also a good idea to lick the head of his penis and use your tongue to flick that frenulum, which is very sensitive.
A lot of people get desensitized to a blowjob after a while, and it’s important to mix it up. Try to use your hands more, talk dirty, and go slower. You can even make choking and gurgling sounds while you’re doing it, as it makes the whole experience more sensual and exciting.
It’s also important to make sure that your blow job is super wet. There are a few ways you can do this, including chewing gum or eating a juicy fruit before you start. However, one of the best ways is to simply keep some edible lube on hand. Most men are turned on by seeing you enjoy yourself during a blowjob, so don’t forget to look at him every now and then.
5. Go slow
A guy who gets a blowjob can sometimes feel like it’s all over way too fast. This can make it hard for him to reach climax. So next time try to slow it down a little. Try the lipstick technique — run his penis along the outline of your lips to tease him and build up the anticipation. Or lick his frenulum — that little area of skin that connects the under side of his penis to his head, it’s chock full of nerves!
Also try to change up your position. Maybe he’s standing, try laying down on the bed and giving him an upside down blow job, or blindfold him and take away his ability to see what’s happening. This can heighten all his senses and make him even more horny.
Another thing that makes a good blowjob super hot is how into it you are. Don’t be afraid to moan and let him know how much you are enjoying yourself. And make sure to use a lot of saliva to keep it nice and slippery.
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