Whether you’re the giver or the receiver, oral sex is a super intimate experience. So it’s important to use good technique. That’s why we asked porn stars and OnlyFans creators, London Twink Milker and Josh Collins for their best blowjob tips.
They shared their expert tips below. Keep in mind that orgasms aren’t the only goal, and pleasure comes from more than just sucking.
1. Make it sexy
One of the best ways to make your blowjob sexy is to be naughty and kinky with it. But don’t go overboard, a good balance of this is key.
Gently tease him before you give head, building up sexual tension, and getting him to practically scream for it. Then when you do give head lick and suck him up the shaft, or try other methods such as kissing him with only your lips, and circling your tongue around his tip. The frenulum (the sensitive skin on the end of his penis) can also be stimulated and can really turn him on, so consider licking it or gently stroking it.
Remember to swallow, it’s important to not just spit out his penis, swallowing shows him that you love and accept it. It’s an act of devotion and passion and a way to show him that you will enjoy his cock at all times and can’t wait until the next time you get to pleasure him with it.
2. Be submissive
Blowjobs can be very kinky and for some men it is important to feel powerful while they are enjoying their pleasure. However, this kink can be very dangerous if women treat blow jobs as a job, instead of the selfless gift that they are for their lovers.
If you want to give a great blowjob, you need to be submissive. This doesn’t mean you need to suck, but you should be willing to let him abuse your mouth.
Make sure to keep your eyes on him when you are giving him head and that your lips are closed. This will prevent you from accidentally licking him in the face, which could be very painful for him and may make him feel like he is being smothered.
When you are giving him head, turn off his phone and yours so that he has your undivided attention. You can also play with him by teasing him, giggling and making him wonder if you will bite his shaft for fun. This will help him get into the mood to enjoy his blowjob more.
3. Be playful
It’s naughty, kinky and playful to be rough with your man in the bedroom. He will want to know that you can be a little bit dirty and sl*ty at the same time and that you enjoy being intimate with him.
Don’t be afraid to use your hands while you give him head. This adds to the sensation of you sucking him hard and long. Try touching the base of his shaft, delicately caressing his testicles or even pinching his nipples. This turns him on and also shows that you are confident and in control of the situation.
Try not to think too much about what you are doing when you give him head. It is more important to focus on making him happy, to have fun and create a sexy atmosphere. Don’t be afraid to make him cum, and don’t be worried if he doesn’t orgasm immediately. Blow jobs are foreplay and he may not be ready to go all the way at first. This is totally normal and he will come back for more.
4. Be creative
One of the best things about giving head is that it’s totally up to you. You can make it as sexy or as boring as you want. It’s up to you to experiment, try new things, and have fun with it. This will give him even more pleasure, and it’ll also help you find your own unique style.
For example, if he likes to feel the frenulum of his penis, you can gently lick it during the blowjob. You can also move your mouth up and down the shaft. And don’t forget to look up at him while you’re doing this. This will make him think you’re a mysterious angel who knows how to please his cock and that will only increase his desire for you.
You can also play with the height of your head. Some guys like their blow jobs to be high, while others prefer them to be low. Just remember to always use your hands to stimulate the lower half of his dick, while your mouth does the upper part.
5. Be confident
Whenever he looks up at you, let him know that you’re completely into the moment. The best way to communicate this is by looking into his eyes (it will turn him on even more) and by letting him know you’re up for whatever he wants next.
Don’t be afraid to take breaks to lick your lips or take in some oxygen. This will make the experience more fun for both of you and will help prevent you from getting tired too fast.
Remember that this is a time to have fun and be flirtatious, so don’t worry about your hygiene or the fact that you might not be wearing a bra (you won’t anyway). It also helps to drink a glass of wine, which will set the mood. Don’t get too drunk, though — you don’t want to forget how to give a good blow job. And don’t be scared to explore the lower part of his dick, too. There’s a lot to do there: tickle, kiss, gently suck and massage. If he doesn’t like it, let him know that you’re not into it, but don’t force him.
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