Jumping into the sex toy world can feel intimidating, especially when a Google search brings up industrial sex swings and giant dildos. For beginners, a discreet vibe like this wand massager made from platinum-grade silicone is an easy and safe starter option.
First decide if you want to play externally on your clit and sensitive areas or if you’re looking for an insertable toy for G-spot and anal stimulation. Then shop for body-safe toys that are made of sanitizable materials from brands like Lovehoney or Babeland.
The Original Magic Wand
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If you’re new to exploring erogenous zones, you can’t go wrong with this classic. Its ring-shaped body and easy-to-press buttons make it one of the most beginner-friendly vibes out there, plus it’s 100 percent waterproof and perfect for foreplay.
It might have a reputation for being intense, but the Magic Wand’s small size and easy-to-press buttons make it perfect for beginners who want to get a feel for what it feels like to masturbate with their hands (and erogenous areas). It also has five different vibration settings so you can find your favorite.
A fan-favorite, this toy is a great choice for people who are interested in oral stimulation or clitoral play. The toy is made from a soft, flexible plastic that’s phthalate-free and hypoallergenic, making it safe for sensitive beginners and those who aren’t quite ready to explore the more powerful toys on the market. It’s also available in a rechargeable version with a longer clitoral head and a silicone cover to protect your vulva.
The bestselling Lelo Sona 2 is a sex toy that’s been loved by celebs, including Lily Allen, and it boasts patented Air Pulse technology to simulate the feeling of your clitoris being sucked. It’s a bit more expensive than the Magic Wand, but it lasts for up to three hours at a time and is fully waterproof so you can use it in the shower.
The Satisfyer Man
This men’s version of the Magic Wand is straightforward, easy to use, and a great choice for beginners. There are only four buttons, one of which is an on/off button and the others let you change between vibration patterns and speed. It also has a setting to warm it up without turning on the vibrations, making it perfect for beginner masturbation.
It’s a bit bigger than the Original Magic Wand, but it still fits in the palm of your hand and is gentle enough to be used on the clitoris, anus, or nipples. You can use it solo or with a partner, and it’s a great toy for practicing slow-building orgasms.
Nipple play is an important part of climax, and this set comes with a nipple sucker and two cock rings that stick to the cock with suction. It’s a cheap, low-cost way to explore nipple stimulation and you can upgrade to other styles of cock toys as your skills improve.
Lovehoney calls this toy a “climax machine,” and we’re inclined to agree. It’s a little less complicated than the other two bullets on this list, with just three speeds and seven patterns to click through with a simple, user-friendly interface. It also comes with a locking feature to prevent accidental activation, which is a plus for beginners.
The Ruby Finger Vibe
One of the more discreet vibes on this list, The Ruby Finger Vibe upgrades your digits with a tiny but powerful vibrator for easy and discreet masturbation or partner play. It’s body safe, stretchy, and comes in a variety of stimulating patterns, from mild to intense. The ribbed texture is also super satisfying and stimulating in its own right.
If you want something with a little more oomph, try the Lelo Gigi or BMS Pillow Talk Sasy. These insertables are designed for clitoral stimulation, and both have different textures that feel great on the clitoris. They are a bit more expensive than the Magic Wand, but they’re still great options for beginners. If you’re looking for a bit more girth, check out the Romp Hype or the Turbo Glider, both of which are less expensive and have a broader range of vibration settings that go from gentle to fierce.
If you’re in a couple, sex toys can be a great way to spice up your bedroom intimacy. The Womanizer Duo is an amazing option for couples who want dual pleasure, as it combines pleasure air technology with a vibrating shaft that hits the clitoral and G-spot and can be positioned anywhere on the body. The toy is also super discreet and has a cool feature called Smart Silence, which only turns on when it touches the body and pauses when pulled away.
The OhMiBod Finger Vibe
The sex toy world is vast, and while a few simple questions can help narrow your search (where do you want to be stimulated? How do you want to feel?) shopping can still be intimidating for first-timers. But don’t worry, there’s a lot of toys out there that can make you see fireworks — just remember to take your time and find a toy that suits your needs.
If you’re a fan of the Magic Wand but are looking for something with a bit more control, check out this finger vibe from one of the world’s most creative sex toy makers. Its sexy silicone design is super comfortable and slips easily in to your fingers, where it delivers a soothing massage that can be boosted by a range of customizable vibration settings.
A good choice for women or men, this slim, ring-shaped vibrator has been designed specifically for more comfortable penteration and works as a clit stimulator or G-spot enhancer. It’s also a lot quieter than full-sized wand vibators and can be used for internal or external stimulation. It even has a USB-rechargeable battery that lasts up to two hours of use per charge. Plus, it’s made with medical-grade silicone and is body-safe.
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