Men’s sexual preferences can vary, so the technique that gives one guy a great blow job might turn another off completely. It’s important to ask about their likes and dislikes in advance.
Even if your partner doesn’t enjoy giving head, there are plenty of pleasure products to explore. Just remember to always have consent!
The Mouth
Blowjobs are not only an incredible physical sensation that can lead to orgasm, but they can also feel extremely erotic on a psychological level. There’s something about a person who you trust, possibly on their knees, taking your most prized possession in their mouth that can be very satisfying. This type of oral sex can be very pleasurable to men as well, and is a great way for them to give head while staying protected from sexually transmitted diseases.
While mainstream porn shows tend to show blowjobs as messy, wet affairs that leave the giver choking, gasping, tearing up and covered in saliva, that’s not a realistic expectation for a real-life blowjob. As with any sex act, communication is key. Don’t try to be too rough with your partner or suck their dick without asking, and always make sure that they are completely down for it.
For those who aren’t in a position to receive a blowjob, there are plenty of pleasure products out there meant to simulate the feeling of a dick stroke. Penis masturbators and strokers are available in various textures, including leather, and many even feature reverberations to mimic moaning and humming. For those who enjoy giving head, a good way to experiment with the feel of a sexy blowjob is by putting your finger in your own mouth and moving it around.
The Vagina
Some of the most pleasurable parts of a blow job come from the vagina. Be sure to use a lot of lube to prevent painful friction and make it easier to get the hang of it, and take it easy to start. Many women report that oral sex gives them more stimulation than penetration does, and that they enjoy the sensation of their partner’s lips brushing against their labia (which are often very sensitive) and the hooded clitoris.
It’s also a good idea to experiment with different positions, since everyone’s labia are uniquely shaped. Some women like to have their partners hold the head of the penis with their hands, while others prefer for their partner’s mouth to be right on top of the dick. You might find that your partner’s clitoris responds best to a gentle pressure, while their cleft palate may crave the extra sensation of a hard rim resting against it.
If you’re the one giving head, it’s important to pay attention to your partner’s responses and to keep experimenting with what feels good for both of you. Some women find that they feel more pleasure if their partner finishes in their mouth and swallows the semen instead of spitting it out. Of course, some women just don’t want to give their partners head at all, and that’s totally fine.
The Scrotum
The scrotum is a bag of skin hanging from the penis that contains testicles and related structures that produce, store and transport sperm and male sex hormones. The sac is dual-chambered, forming an extension of the perineum. It is externally divided by a muscular partition, the scrotal septum. It encloses the testes, epididymis and the spermatic cord.
Each testicle produces and stores sperm, and secretes testosterone, an important hormone for male development, body hair growth and muscle development. The scrotal sac also contains a long tube called the epididymis that collects and transports sperm from each testicle to the penis for ejaculation. The scrotum is supplied with blood by the scrotal vein and innervated via the spermatic cord, a bundle of muscles, nerves and vessels that runs to and from the testes.
A scrotal mass is an abnormal swelling in the bag of skin that hangs behind the penis (scrotum). The swelling may be caused by cancer, an accumulation of fluid or another condition that affects testicular function or health. Regular self-exams and doctor exams are important to detect and treat scrotal masses.
Unlike the vagina, the penis is much more sensitive to touch and pressure. This sensitivity can be enhanced by the presence of a woman’s mouth and tongue, and is especially intensified when she applies gentle suction.
The Perineum
The perineum is the small area in between the scrotum or vagina and the anus. It’s a nerve-rich pleasure center with orgasmic potential, and it can be fun to explore with the help of a blowjob.
Men can enjoy a blowjob from either a woman or another man, and it can feel different for each guy. The mouth can add a lot to the experience because of the warmth, slippery sensations and saliva. Some guys find it incredibly arousing to have a tongue gently caress the head of their penis, while others prefer the more firm pressure of the fingers.
Women who enjoy giving head will often use their hands to massage the scrotum as well, and that can feel great for both of them. Oral sex is a fantastic way to deepen intimacy and trust in a relationship, and many people find that it leads to orgasms.
If you aren’t comfortable with oral sex, or you want to try it without your partner, there are plenty of pleasure toys meant to simulate the feeling of the mouth and tongue on the penis. Some of them can even add a vibrating element for extra pleasure.
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