Blowjobs are intense, euphoric physical sensations. They’re often a form of foreplay before penetrative sex, but can also be the main course or appetizer.
Men and women around the world love receiving oral sex, with 26 percent labeling it as “moderately important”. But how long should a blowjob last?
The Giver
Unlike most questions, the answer to how long a blowjob should last is not objectively obvious. It depends on several factors.
One important factor is the man’s level of arousal. If he is not feeling horny, then a shorter blow job might be better. Likewise, if he is very horny, then he may want a longer oral session. It is also important to communicate with your man about his preferences during the blowjob. This will help you know how long to continue the session and if there is anything that could be improved.
In a survey, the men reported that they prefer 9- to 11-minute blow jobs. This is shorter than the standard four-minute session that is usually seen in pornography. However, it is still enough to make the man feel special and satisfy his desires.
Another factor that influences how long a blowjob should last is the woman’s stamina. Women tend to have more stamina than men, which means that they can enjoy a longer blowjob. According to the study, American women are more likely to swallow during a blowjob than European women.
In addition, lube can increase the length of a blowjob. This is because lube makes it easier for the woman to suck. Moreover, it helps reduce friction between the lips and tongue. Hence, it is important to apply lube before giving a blowjob.
The Receiver
If you’re an oral sex novice, it’s easy to overdo things and end up in pain. You can also wind up with the opposite of what you wanted – boredom and annoyance. If you want to avoid this, a little communication can go a long way in sexual satisfaction.
For example, one guy might love to be sucked hard while another wants to feel the full shaft of his penis. It’s also important to know how much pressure the receiver can handle. If a man jerks too hard, it can be painful for him and may even cause ejaculation. Likewise, if you’re going too fast and he feels he can’t keep up, he might start to feel uncomfortable.
The sweet spot for most men is five to seven minutes of a blow job. It gives the giver a sense of accomplishment and allows the receiver to climax without feeling like it’s dragging out too long. Interestingly enough, most men in the Blowjob Resume study said they prefer shorter oral sex.
The Pace
The pace of a blowjob depends on many factors. It could be very slow and methodical, or it can be very quick. Often, it’s a little bit of both. It all depends on how much you want to give your partner, and what kind of pleasure you both are looking for. You can also add a lot of other things to the experience, like sex toys, a flavored lube or even cum in her mouth if she wants it.
The researchers at Superdrug Online Doctor surveyed 1,100 men and women from across Europe and America to find out more about what they like in their blow jobs, how long they like it to last and which parts of their bodies are most aroused by it. Some of their findings are a little bit surprising!
Men on average say that their ideal blow job lasts for 7 minutes and 22 seconds. Women report that they’d prefer a blowjob to last 10 minutes and 11 seconds.
It’s interesting to note that these numbers are actually pretty close, indicating that the ideal blowjob is pretty similar for both men and women. This is good news for those who are trying to build up their sexual stamina, as oral sex can definitely be a precursor to the main event. It can be as intense and as orgasmic as sex, but it takes time to get there!
The Toys
When it comes to oral sex, men see it as just the beginning of what they hope will be an orgasmic climax. And while some men shoot their loads in a few minutes, others will take forever to reach orgasm. Regardless, there are things that will help them get there faster.
First, the woman should be as comfortable as possible. She can sit or stand but should be close to the bed so that she can dedicate all of her attention to pleasing him. She can also lick or moan while she’s sucking his dick, which will add to the pleasure. It’s also a good idea for her to lick other erogenous zones, such as his balls or inner thighs.
She should also use lube to make the experience even more orgasmic. The flavor and feel of the lube will add to the sensual experience, and she might find that it feels better than a dry mouth. She can also experiment with different flavors to see what works best for her.
Finally, she should try to cum during the blowjob. This will not only make the experience more orgasmic but will also help her last longer. It’s important for her to learn how to last longer during the orgasm, which will translate over to real sex later on.
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