Many couples may not know that the best time to have sex is first thing in the morning. Energy levels are at their highest and male testosterone is up, according to experts.
However, some people prefer to save sex for lights out. They argue that it’s a great way to relax before sleep and can lead to orgasms that help you fall asleep faster.
Morning
People who love morning sex say it’s the perfect way to start the day. They have high energy levels and are at their most physically ready to make love. Plus, morning sex can increase the level of oxytocin in your body, which boosts feelings of bonding and trust in your relationship.
According to one survey, the best time to have sex is about 30 minutes after you wake up. This is because energy levels are at their peak, and you’ve had a good night’s sleep so you can get into the bedroom and really let loose.
Whether you like to have sex in the morning or at night, it’s important that your schedule works for both of you. If you have kids, work or other responsibilities that prevent you from having sex in the morning or at night, consider trying to find a middle ground. For example, you could meet up in the afternoon for some flirting and foreplay.
Getting creative with sex timing can also help couples who are trying to conceive, especially since some sex experts recommend that couples vary their sex times in order to boost the likelihood of getting pregnant. However, it’s important that you and your partner make time for sex at least once or twice per week. Otherwise, you may not be able to hit your ovulation window and boost your chances of pregnancy.
Afternoon
When it comes to the best time of day to have sex, everyone has their own preferences. But if you’re in the mood to get your horny on but aren’t ready for the intimacy of nighttime sex, it may be worth considering the benefits of afternoon delights.
Whether you want to turn up the heat or just want a quick fuck before hitting the office again, a little afternoon sex can give you and your partner something to look forward to at the end of the week. “Midday sex can help to reset your energy,” says sexologist Goody Howard. It’s not only the hormones released that can give you a renewed sense of vigour, but being in sex with your lover also relieves stress, which can improve both your physical and mental health.
Plus, the fact that you’re in broad daylight means that there’s less room for ambiguity or miscommunication around consent. And since most of us are probably already exhausted from the workday, getting down to business in the afternoon can actually help you to relax and fall into a deep sleep faster at night. Win, win, win.
Night
A lot of people assume night time is the best time for sex, but according to sleep expert Michael Breus, it’s not. “The problem with saving sex for lights out is that by then you’re exhausted and the energy level just isn’t there for a mind-blowing experience,” he tells The Stir. “And the more tired you are, the more difficult it is to fall asleep.”
In fact, Breus says that couples who have sex at bedtime often don’t even remember it the next morning, as they’re so focused on trying to get to sleep. Instead, he recommends having a romp in the morning, when testosterone and estrogen levels are highest and you’re less tired.
Another good nighttime option is right before you head to bed, when the oxytocin released during orgasm will help you fall asleep easily. But it’s important to be aware of how you feel and make sure your partner is OK with sex before they go to sleep.
If you’re in your thirties, Dr Kelley advises having sex early – around 8:20am – to take advantage of the sun’s natural boost of testosterone. And if you’re in your forties, as the nights draw in earlier, you may want to start having sex earlier too – and plan on going to bed before midnight. This will give you a chance to experience sex during the most intense, orgasm-producing, phase of your cycle.
Adrenaline
Despite the debate between night-owls and early birds, there is actually no one best time to have sex. Each time of day comes with its own pros and cons, and what’s most important is having a regular sex routine with your partner and getting orgasms on a daily basis to maximise feelings of satisfaction and boost fertility.
According to hormone expert Alisa Vitti, the peak time for heterosexual couples is bang on 3pm. Writing for MailOnline, she says that this is when men and women are in sync with each other’s libidos. She explains that this is because while they sleep, men produce testosterone, which plays a key role in sexual arousal and performance. It hits its highest levels in the afternoon, and when this happens, males are more likely to want to initiate sex.
This is also the point at which oxytocin, a feel-good neurotransmitter that increases bonding and improves your mood, is at its most elevated after a night’s sleep. So, while the afternoon may be an untapped hotspot for sex, it’s definitely worth trying out, especially if you’re an orgasm-obsessed couple. But remember to not overdo it – having sex too many times a day can reduce healthy sperm counts. Instead, aim for sex three to four times a week.
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